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Wow. Well this isn't easy.

Hello, internet. One of you in particular.

Today I have to tell you- Oh, deviation title, you ruined it!

I don't think I just like girls, honestly. But I'm not exactly in the middle either. I can't even be sure what end of the spectrum I'm closer to, probably the one I'd much rather not be, but why does it really matter?

It isn't a phase. But I sure wish it was. It's something that's been here a long, long time, longer than I was even conciously aware of.

It doesn't mean that I hit on every girl I see or on my friends or anything like that. It doesn't mean that I'm gonna start going by the stereotype. It doesn't mean anything about me has changed, because it hasn't.

This is certainly not what I would choose if I could, know that. There's a lot I would do to change it, but nothing I can do. Like me, you just have to take it or leave it.

"I like girls the way I'm supposed to feel about boys. It's something that's always been inside of me and I really want to share it with you because I love you so much and I want you to know me- for who I am. I've tried so hard to push this away but everyday it feels like a war. I walk around so mad at the world but I'm really just fighting with myself and I don't wnt to fight anymore. I'm just too tired. I have to just be me." Every time I watch this scene I cry because that's exactly how I feel, whether I like it or not. Which I don't.

I genuinely do not believe that it is a sin. I have done my research on both sides of the argument and it's the conclusion I've come to. You can agree or disagree, but I'm sticking with it. Though I did not tell him that any of it applied to me, my reasons even changed my stubborn Dad's opinions on the subject. First of all, God loves everyone and we're all saved by grace, right? And why would God send someone to hell or stop loving them for something they didn't choose? What about the people who know they'd be rejected by their family and friends and church and try to push it away but can't and eventually end up comitting suicide? I highly doubt they chose it. In my opinion, saying someone is going to hell because they're gay is like saying they're going to hell because they have green eyes or because they're asian or because they're left handed or because they're tall. Also, I don't think it's against the bible. Of course, I can't have a way of knowing this for sure, nobody can. But after all the research I've done, it's what I believe. The only place homosexuality is condemned is in the book of Leviticus, which also says that you can't cook meat smelly enough for your neighboor to smell it, interact or make any kind of physical contact with a woman on her period, or wear clothes with mixed fabrics (like 40% cotton, 60% polyester). If that's the case, I'm certainly going to hell. Also keep in mind that translating something from an ancient form of Aramaic into modern English with countless languages in between, some things are going to get lost or changed. The only other place where homosexuality is mentioned, the original word did not mean homosexual. There was a lexical gap (*meaning there is no word for it in a language) and the original Greek word meant something more like "sexual pervert", referring to man who sleeps with younger male prostitues. That is certainly not me.

This is hard and I don't know what else to say, but please, please, please love me for who I am. I've already encountered people who don't and had things said directly to me that I never thought I would hear, and believe me, they hurt. This is honestly quite terrifying to me but with the help of friends (and, I'm not gonna lie, tumblr) I'm getting through it. I've cried so much over it but I'm slowly learning to love myself anyway. Please, please, please, please do the same?
Self explanatory

Oh dead wizard god why i am i doing this i am so scared to post this
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EiraCandles Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
I'm so proud of you for posting this. I'm going through the same thing but it's so hard for me to admit so I keep pushing it away. I don't believe it is a sin nor will you go to hell for it. Just know I'm here for you if you need anything.
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WaterbendingQueer Featured By Owner Jun 25, 2012  Student General Artist
Amen. =)
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TwiPuccaFan1 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Student Writer
I am very proud of you for posting this. This one of the thoughest things one can do in their lifetime, and you had the courage to tell the truth about your true feelings. Just remember that no matter if there's no one who cares, that's a lie, because I care. Very, very much. I love you so flipping much and I will forever and always be you Aunt Bellatrix!
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Oh my... Alma <3 I cannot say how relieved and happy I am reading your response :) Just, thank you so much. I can't even say how much better that made me feel *hugs*
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TwiPuccaFan1 Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2012  Student Writer
No problem, girl! If you ever need someone to talk to, I'll always be all ears to you! <3
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TwiPuccaFan1 Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2012  Student Writer
*hugs back* ;)
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TwiPuccaFan1 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Student Writer
* your
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BeansWithJelly Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Best of luck with life with everything, dearie! Coming out is tough, I know, but I admire your strength! Some people are so scared to face themselves that they lie about it to EVERYONE - including themselves... obviously, you are not one of these people. I'm proud of you for being brave enough to love who you love, while continuing to love yourself.

Please, don't let the world bring you down -- there are more people who love you than you know! :hug:

Oh, yeah, one more thing: I like your commentary on Leviticus. :D
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Aww thank you! :) I was honestly like that for a while, but I couldn't fight it any longer. So, I'm not. I've had two friends who have been there to help me through it whenever I need them, and I certainly would not have been able to work up the courage if not for them- I owe them so much. <3

And thank you for that as well :) "Put on your brave face" is kind of my little saying that gets me though it. Just posting this actually helped a lot. I wanted to take it down as soon as it was up but I left it, and now I'm really glad I did. The responses I've gotten have been amazing.

Haha, why thank you :D Also, I like the style of how your comment is written. :)
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BeansWithJelly Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
You're quite welcome! I'm glad that you have some friends who will stick by you -- that's one of the most important things to have! :)

And thank you! (There were a couple of grammatical errors in there at some point, but oh well...) :D
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TheWriTer999 Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Hun I wish you the best :pride:
I hope you can feel comfortable in your own skin (whatever that may be)
I hope you can figure this whole thing out
But in the medium I'm happy you're reaching out to groups like my own
Meet people, talk to people, be safe, and most importantly never hold anything in.
There will be always someone who will want to listen :heart:
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
aww thank you <3
I can't really say how much hearing this from a complete stranger like yourself means to me (perhaps that should be changed?)
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TheWriTer999 Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Get to know me! Lol :D

follow me on tumblr, as me a question and I'll give you my facebook... like a treasure hunt of friendship lol
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Yes! Oh, I love treasure hunts!

So, what is this wonderful tumblr of yours?
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TheWriTer999 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
the link's in my signature gurly :P
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Oh.
Right.
I am one of the most unobservant people you will, ever meet, I apologize for that. :p
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TheWriTer999 Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
haha no problemo
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UltraDarkViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2012  Student Writer
I know people can say horrible things, and as much as they may hurt, in the end that's their problem not yours.
Love who you love! :hug:
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
*IGNORE THE OTHER I STILL CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO EMOTICONS*
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UltraDarkViolet Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012  Student Writer
It's fine, it took me forever to figure emoticons out as well, you are very welcome!
And anyone who would tell you that is just an asshole, I'm sorry it had to be a 'friend'
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
If I may ask you, how do I do them? I've been on dA for more than a year and still haven't figured it out...

It wasn't that bad that it was him, really. He was someone I used to go to school with but then he moved. It was really just that I had heard those types of things before but didn't realize much they hurt until it was said to my face. But, yes, he is the assholiest of them all.
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UltraDarkViolet Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2012  Student Writer
That must suck, I hear those types of comments being told a lot. You just can't let it get to you.

As for emoticons there are still I don't know how to do like I tried the one's you did and I got blanks as well but normally you just at plz to the end of whatever you had already typed up like iconbeatingheartplz is :iconbeatingheartplz: I hope that helps. Some of them I don't know how to do either, I'm just going off what a friend told me.
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
:iconaffection: Thank you <3 Hearing that from a complete stranger means bunches after being told I'll burn in an eternal pit of lonlieness in Hell (pleasant right? :iconrepulsed: ) by a "friend". :iconthanks:
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Call-mE-aNGE Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Kudos. I don't know you, but I'm really proud that you were able to do this. Most people I know wouldn't be able to.
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LuckyLiza2 Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Aww, thank you <3 I felt like it needed to be said, it was honestly something I just needed to unleash.
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